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Sit down and think about it.
Posted On 07/08/2008 20:55:30 by dead_head

It is easy to fall for someone. Very easy to get into a relationship and get your heart broken, and you probably won't even be completely healed the next time one comes along. Sit down for a bit. Think about what you want. I do not think one who bounces around with relationships, no I mean serious relationships isn't looking for some kind of comfort. A relationship where you connect with the other person not just cause you constantly wanna *be* with them, or cause you love the way they look and they impress your friends. Stop! Just think about it for one moment. Your life, all our lives are so short. Nobody knows when they're gonna die. Nobody!! Well, there are some who do. You get what I mean. This isn't about finding someone to be with anymore. It's about finding someone and or people who will love you from the heart and that you can love back. Sure a lot of that doesn't last forever. Nobody has forever, We don't have our hands around it, do we? There is something called the long run. There is something that lasts longer than a few weeks, a few months, and a few days. Please sit for a while, wait, get a book. Your heart is your powerhouse. It can only handle so much.. You can poke it, pinch it,and brake it oh so many times, but what will you have made?? A mangled organ that knows no love. I'm not saying that you should sit like some lady in waiting for the rest of your days. I'm just saying that you may not know the damage that you're doing to yourself, and thus your heart.. It's very sad for people who've gone through too many things in their lives that they lose certain abilities and feelings that they once had. You have to know that YOU are number one and should always be. If you're in a relationship and break up, be it mutual, or one-sided, you need to take the time to heal. Try not to get into anything. It would be like putting your heart on the end of a fishing rod, and casting it out. You never know what kind of bite you'll get, but think about it, it IS going to be a bite.. You may think it not fun, but all I'm saying is that your heart is fragile, and should be treated so..  I may not know much, or anything, but when I know something, or at least feel for something strongly, I'm gonna share it with you...



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08/26/2008 02:28:01

this is true but i like how you up it cause some people dont know what love is
me i do but there are some people out there just putting the word i love you or i want to be
with you out there and really they dont if you are going to say that mean it  just makes me mad even old people
hardly know what the work love is so yeah all im saying if you are going to say it mean it



07/11/2008 16:42:56

This is very good advice. There can be light-hearted relationships... I had a "playmate" at art school and we used to just go to parties together and nothing else. But it's true that it is dangerous to rush into a new relationship after a really good one ends.

Being single can be dangerous. In our local paper yesterday, I read that a woman near us had to have her ear sewn back on because of being beaten around the head by her boyfriend of that time (boxing day last year). She is reported to have said he "used her head like a football"  

So it is better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. Young women have their whole twenties and thirties ahead of them to find someone who is right, why not use that time to choose wisely - and safely.




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