ok look, been together for a few months. somthing was bound to irk eachother at some point. when 2 ppl have a bad day and get around eachother it kinda turns into a game of "one up" in reality this is the begning of an argument and some hurt feelings. the thing to do instead of thinkg "my day was worse than yours" try saying "wow that sucks! how can i help dear?" and then in turn explain your bad day. then you both can sympathise with eachother.

if you find yourself starting to get upset and almost yelling make a consious effort to chill and take a breath. think about the others feelings and how you would feel in thier shoes but also how there feeling at that moment (are they worked up too?) this will keep the esclation of a bad mood from rising too fast as you are taking time to think before speaking.         As for the rest (not taking to you (i Hate to say this but.....) its mostly a guy thing. just give some time and dont jump back to intensly. some of us guys need to be helped with calm words and slow steps Not yelling and whips..... (even though lol J/K)

it will be ok!

Cj